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Emotional Wounds
Wyman
believes that, to varying degrees, we all grow up in dysfunctional
families, which cannot help but inflict emotional wounds of one
sort or another. The result of this early wounding is the development
of a Defense System and the fragmenting of our Core Self.
"Some people never fully express their true personalities
because of obstacles from the past," says Wyman. Only by healing
these deep wounds (and thereby dismantling our Defense System)
are we able to reintegrate our Core Self.
Here are example charts showing compatible and oppositional
qualities for MBTI ISTJ
and Enneagram 1, and MBTI
ISTJ and Enneagram 9.
How to Heal
This dynamic method of healing utilizes affective therapy in the
form of Inner-Child work, based on an individual's personality
type:
- the Enneagram represents a person's Defense System
- the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator® describes the Core
Self and, by extension, the Inner Child
Starting with identification of the triggers that move you away
from your Core Self, you begin to re-establish access to your inner
wisdom - integrating your mind, body, and spirit - and thus creating
a safe place to be you.
"Up until now," says Wyman, "Inner-Child Therapy
has taken a one-size-fits-all approach. This new model demonstrates
how understanding the roles of the two personality typing systems
can more effectively facilitate personal growth. Using the keys
of the Enneagram, the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator® and Inner-Child
Therapy can expedite the journey of recovery."
The Effectiveness of the Method
Three Keys to Self-Understanding represents the
culmination of ten years of Wyman's therapeutic work with clients,
many of whom courageously share their stories (as well as artwork,
poems, and letters, which are interspersed throughout the text).
Perhaps the greatest testament to the power of Wyman's work appears
in the Epilogue, where some of these former clients tell, in their
own words, what this work has meant to them and how their lives
have changed as a result (see sidebar
for testimonials).
More
A book outline and chapter summary in PDF format is available here.
Three Keys to Self-Understanding is published by
the Center For Applications of Psychological Type (CAPT) and is
available by calling 1-800-777-2278 or at www.capt.org.
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